This may come as a surprise to you...
At some point in their lives, ALL men suffer from sexual performance anxiety.
If you're like the average guy, then you probably have moments where you worry about your performance in bed and want to know how you can please your woman better.
Is that is the case then read pay close attention. In the next few paragraphs, I'll describe a few unique ways to can EASILY eliminate your sexual performance anxiety.
If you can master these tips, then you say goodbye to ANY nervousness that you fact in the bedroom:
Sexual Performance Anxiety Tip #1- Get More Exercise
Believe it or not, a lot of sexual anxiety is resulted from a lack of exercise. If you learn to incorporate more physical fitness activities into your life, you'll see a dramatic reduction in nervousness and tension which can be a major cause of your anxiety.
Sexual Performance Anxiety Tip #2- Be Aware of Self-Fulfilling Prophesies
The human mind is an amazing thing. If you keep telling yourself that you're nervous then you're going to build up a lot of anxiety and will have sex in a nervous manner. In other words, if you keep telling yourself that you're going to suck in bed, you ARE going to suck in bed.
What you should try to mentally prepare for sex by telling yourself that you're going to enjoy the experience no matter what happens.
Sexual Performance Anxiety Tip #3- Learn to Relax
If you can approach sex with a relaxed and stress-free attitude, you'll eliminate a lot of your anxiety. All you have to is remind yourself that having sex is supposed to be an enjoyable activity. Just remember that it's not the end of the world if your performance isn't great.
Sexual Performance Anxiety Tip #4- Manage the Stress in Your Life
Much of the anxiety that you face before sex can be resulted from outside stressors in your life. If you can manage to manage (or eliminate) some things which are hampering your performance, you'll learned to be relax. And as we all know, being relaxed in the bedroom can help approach the experience with a great attitude.
Sexual Performance Anxiety Tip #5- Find the Right Woman
While a lot of performance anxiety can be internal, there are some times when it can be resulted from outside factors. For instance, many guys suffer from anxiety due to overwhelming expectations from their female partner.
If you're in a situation where your woman is pressuring you, try talking to her. If you can't have a frank and open discussion about what's going on, then you might be with the wrong woman.
Sexual performance anxiety can have a crippling effect on your love life. If you take care to manage your internal factors and find the right woman, you'll find that it's a simple process to eliminate your anxiety.
Once this is done, you'll be able to have a GREAT sexual experience!
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Sunday, January 21, 2007
Saturday, January 13, 2007
Average Penis Size by Dr. John Anne
The stuff written about the size of the male penis could fill up all the libraries of the world, and then some more. Nothing – repeat, nothing – has been such an issue of male concern as the size of the penis. As a result, there have been several articles, periodicals, reports, books, etc. written about it. Most of these genuinely speak about the problems pertaining to penile sizes. But, sorry to say, a vast number of these articles help in perpetrating myths about the size of penis. We find such myths abounding in advertisements that sell products for increasing penis sizes. This article strives in a realistic and frank manner about penis sizes and also tries to remove some of the myths that center around the issue.
First and foremost, it is necessary to remember that there is nothing such as ‘the perfect penis’. When one looks at well-hung porn stars, there is bound to be a feeling of embarrassment about one’s own penis. That is natural, but you should remember that most of those porn stars are paid for their penis sizes. So they pump themselves up with steroids – something that is quite harmful to do – or maybe the digital camera does the trick.
Most men have penis sizes between 5½ to 7½ inches. So, if your penis lies in this range; there is nothing to be worried about. Another thing is that this penis size is an average all over the world. There is nothing supporting the fact that African penises are bigger and Asian penises are smaller. Men of all penis sizes are found all over the world.
Even if your penis is smaller than the size mentioned above, there is no need to be disheartened. A penis that is as small as 4 inches is enough to satisfy a woman. In the vagina, only the first few inches are sexually receptive. A penis of any size above four inches is enough to provide this stimulation. Also the clitoris – the prime spot of all female sexual stimulation – is placed at the outer end of the vagina, just below the vulva. Penises of all sizes can easily rub the clitoris if inserted properly. Thus, there is no need to worry about satisfying your woman on account of the size of your penis.
Many women, when asked, said that it is the girth of the man’s penis that matters to them and not the length. This may be true, as a fatter penis can better rub the outer rim of the vagina, and thus provide with more friction. A longer but thin penis would penetrate inside better, but there would be no rubbing of the sides, which is all the more important when it comes to providing the woman with satisfaction. Women are of the opinion that a longer penis is actually cumbersome for all kinds of penetrative sex, and in fact it is even painful to both the partners.
But again, there is no specified girth for the penis. Some statistics have revealed that a penis with a girth of nearing six inches should do the trick, though a smaller size is also very much efficient. Actually this depends very much on the width of the vagina itself. Most women have vaginas that are between 2 to 2½ inches in width. Hence a penis of anywhere about 4 inches in girth should be enough to satisfy a woman adequately.
Now we come to the most important part of this discussion. If the size of the penis does not biologically matter, and if women do not see much difference between a large and a not-so-large penis, then where does the argument lie? If you follow it closely, you will see that the size of the penis is most of all a male issue. It is the man who has the desire of having a big penis, and not necessarily the woman. Every many wants to look better-endowed in the locker rooms and in public showers. It is a kind of an ego-boost for a man to realize that he his member overshadows the members of his peers. That is where the whole issue begins from.
Thus, the need of a big penis is not biological; it is psychological. When a male happens to see a penis that is bigger than his, he might go, ‘Oh! What I would do to get a penis like his!’ And definitely the man may resort to several methods to gain a few millimeters on his penis.
For the woman, perhaps, a bigger penis is just a bigger toy and nothing more. It might provide her with some more pleasure during foreplay and may be she can experiment more with it during oral sex; but there’s nothing more than that. However, the expression on a woman’s face when she sees a well-hung man is all that is needed to bolster the man’s confidence about his own machismo.
It must be remembered that it is the sperm count and not the size of the penis that matters. You will find it asked often in all the magazine columns that, ‘I have a … inch penis, and I think it is too small. Will I be able to father children?’ There is nothing that penis size can do to your capacity of fathering children. If the sperm are deposited even on the outer rim of the vagina, they are equipped with flagella to swim their way up to the woman’s egg cells. So, no need to worry.
You need to worry only if you have an extremely small penis, called as a micropenis, which is disproportionately small to the rest of your genitals. Micropenises are below 1 inch in size, and they are caused due to some congenital conditions. There are surgical methods to get this problem treated.
So, if you have a fairly big enough penis, go ahead and feel confident about the world. Give your woman the love and affection that is more important. If your love is adequate, the size of the penis wouldn’t matter in any way.
Read more about Average Penis Size and other Secret Sexual Issues at http://www.mysecrethealth.com
Also Know more on Premature Ejaculation Cure through natural and herbal treatments.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Dr_John_Anne
First and foremost, it is necessary to remember that there is nothing such as ‘the perfect penis’. When one looks at well-hung porn stars, there is bound to be a feeling of embarrassment about one’s own penis. That is natural, but you should remember that most of those porn stars are paid for their penis sizes. So they pump themselves up with steroids – something that is quite harmful to do – or maybe the digital camera does the trick.
Most men have penis sizes between 5½ to 7½ inches. So, if your penis lies in this range; there is nothing to be worried about. Another thing is that this penis size is an average all over the world. There is nothing supporting the fact that African penises are bigger and Asian penises are smaller. Men of all penis sizes are found all over the world.
Even if your penis is smaller than the size mentioned above, there is no need to be disheartened. A penis that is as small as 4 inches is enough to satisfy a woman. In the vagina, only the first few inches are sexually receptive. A penis of any size above four inches is enough to provide this stimulation. Also the clitoris – the prime spot of all female sexual stimulation – is placed at the outer end of the vagina, just below the vulva. Penises of all sizes can easily rub the clitoris if inserted properly. Thus, there is no need to worry about satisfying your woman on account of the size of your penis.
Many women, when asked, said that it is the girth of the man’s penis that matters to them and not the length. This may be true, as a fatter penis can better rub the outer rim of the vagina, and thus provide with more friction. A longer but thin penis would penetrate inside better, but there would be no rubbing of the sides, which is all the more important when it comes to providing the woman with satisfaction. Women are of the opinion that a longer penis is actually cumbersome for all kinds of penetrative sex, and in fact it is even painful to both the partners.
But again, there is no specified girth for the penis. Some statistics have revealed that a penis with a girth of nearing six inches should do the trick, though a smaller size is also very much efficient. Actually this depends very much on the width of the vagina itself. Most women have vaginas that are between 2 to 2½ inches in width. Hence a penis of anywhere about 4 inches in girth should be enough to satisfy a woman adequately.
Now we come to the most important part of this discussion. If the size of the penis does not biologically matter, and if women do not see much difference between a large and a not-so-large penis, then where does the argument lie? If you follow it closely, you will see that the size of the penis is most of all a male issue. It is the man who has the desire of having a big penis, and not necessarily the woman. Every many wants to look better-endowed in the locker rooms and in public showers. It is a kind of an ego-boost for a man to realize that he his member overshadows the members of his peers. That is where the whole issue begins from.
Thus, the need of a big penis is not biological; it is psychological. When a male happens to see a penis that is bigger than his, he might go, ‘Oh! What I would do to get a penis like his!’ And definitely the man may resort to several methods to gain a few millimeters on his penis.
For the woman, perhaps, a bigger penis is just a bigger toy and nothing more. It might provide her with some more pleasure during foreplay and may be she can experiment more with it during oral sex; but there’s nothing more than that. However, the expression on a woman’s face when she sees a well-hung man is all that is needed to bolster the man’s confidence about his own machismo.
It must be remembered that it is the sperm count and not the size of the penis that matters. You will find it asked often in all the magazine columns that, ‘I have a … inch penis, and I think it is too small. Will I be able to father children?’ There is nothing that penis size can do to your capacity of fathering children. If the sperm are deposited even on the outer rim of the vagina, they are equipped with flagella to swim their way up to the woman’s egg cells. So, no need to worry.
You need to worry only if you have an extremely small penis, called as a micropenis, which is disproportionately small to the rest of your genitals. Micropenises are below 1 inch in size, and they are caused due to some congenital conditions. There are surgical methods to get this problem treated.
So, if you have a fairly big enough penis, go ahead and feel confident about the world. Give your woman the love and affection that is more important. If your love is adequate, the size of the penis wouldn’t matter in any way.
Read more about Average Penis Size and other Secret Sexual Issues at http://www.mysecrethealth.com
Also Know more on Premature Ejaculation Cure through natural and herbal treatments.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Dr_John_Anne
Wednesday, January 03, 2007
What is Premature Ejacualtion By Natan Young
Among a number of problems related with the sexual health of men and of course his partner, we find Premature Ejaculation as the most common sexual problem , this is a pathology characterized by a lack of voluntary control over ejaculation. Masters and Johnson stated that a man suffers from premature ejaculation if he ejaculates before his partner achieves orgasm in more than fifty percent of his sexual encounters. Other sex researchers have defined premature ejaculation as occurring if the man ejaculates within two minutes of penetration; however, a survey by Alfred Kinsey, (yes the inquisitive scientist of the movie the recently showed in theaters) made in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ejaculated within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters. Today, most sex therapists understand premature ejaculation as occurring when a lack of ejaculatory control interferes with sexual or emotional well-being in one or both partners. An estimated thirty percent of men suffer from premature ejaculation on a consistent basis.
Premature Ejaculation is believed to be a psychological problem and does not represent any known organic disease involving the male reproductive tract or any known lesions in the brain or nervous system. In short, PE is not a physiological problem or disease, though it manifests physiologically by considering the organ systems directly affected by PE, that include the male reproductive tract (ie, penis, prostate, seminal vesicles, testicles, and their appendages), the portions of the central and peripheral nervous system controlling the male reproductive tract, and the reproductive organ systems of the sexual partner (for the purpose of this discussion, the partner is assumed to be female) that may not be stimulated sufficiently to achieve orgasm. If the PE occurs so early that it happens before commencement of sexual intercourse and the couple is attempting pregnancy, then pregnancy is impossible to achieve unless artificial insemination is used. Perhaps the most affected organ system is the psyche of the partners. Both partners are likely to be dissatisfied emotionally and physically by this problem.
Frequency:
In the US: The prevalence rate of PE in American males is estimated to range from 30-70%.
Internationally: Estimates for European countries and India mirror the prevalence in the United States. The prevalence in other parts of Asia, Africa, Australia, and elsewhere is unknown. Mortality/Morbidity: No known direct morbidity or mortality results from PE.
Race: No reproducible data exist on major differences between racial groups with respect to the incidence or prevalence of PE.
Sex: PE is a condition that only affects males.
Age: PE can occur at virtually any age in an adult man's life. It is most common in younger men (aged 18-30 y), but it also may occur in conjunction with secondary impotence in men aged 45-65 years.
If you or someone near you suffers from Premature Ejaculation problems you should know that this is a curable condition. You can learn more at this site: http://www.askingplanet.com
Natan Young, freelance writer specialized in Health issues affecting both men and women.
http://www.askingplanet.com
Premature Ejaculation is believed to be a psychological problem and does not represent any known organic disease involving the male reproductive tract or any known lesions in the brain or nervous system. In short, PE is not a physiological problem or disease, though it manifests physiologically by considering the organ systems directly affected by PE, that include the male reproductive tract (ie, penis, prostate, seminal vesicles, testicles, and their appendages), the portions of the central and peripheral nervous system controlling the male reproductive tract, and the reproductive organ systems of the sexual partner (for the purpose of this discussion, the partner is assumed to be female) that may not be stimulated sufficiently to achieve orgasm. If the PE occurs so early that it happens before commencement of sexual intercourse and the couple is attempting pregnancy, then pregnancy is impossible to achieve unless artificial insemination is used. Perhaps the most affected organ system is the psyche of the partners. Both partners are likely to be dissatisfied emotionally and physically by this problem.
Frequency:
In the US: The prevalence rate of PE in American males is estimated to range from 30-70%.
Internationally: Estimates for European countries and India mirror the prevalence in the United States. The prevalence in other parts of Asia, Africa, Australia, and elsewhere is unknown. Mortality/Morbidity: No known direct morbidity or mortality results from PE.
Race: No reproducible data exist on major differences between racial groups with respect to the incidence or prevalence of PE.
Sex: PE is a condition that only affects males.
Age: PE can occur at virtually any age in an adult man's life. It is most common in younger men (aged 18-30 y), but it also may occur in conjunction with secondary impotence in men aged 45-65 years.
If you or someone near you suffers from Premature Ejaculation problems you should know that this is a curable condition. You can learn more at this site: http://www.askingplanet.com
Natan Young, freelance writer specialized in Health issues affecting both men and women.
http://www.askingplanet.com
Monday, January 01, 2007
Happy New Year!
Wanted to wish all of you a very wonderful and prosperous 2007!
John Crawford
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John Crawford
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www.cash-mind.com
www.idealbusinessventures.com
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